

But confident girls know that’s his issue, not theirs.

Yes, there are times when a man isn’t going to want her, even though she’s dope.

They also do not mess with another girl’s man.īad bitches do not take everything personally, especially rejection. Bad bitches don’t feel the need to put down other girls. Girls with no friends are not just basic bitches, they are actual bitches because if you can’t hang onto friends you probably can’t be trusted. One way you can always tell a basic bitch apart from a bad one, is to see if she has friends. They accentuate their best features and don’t hide their worst because they don’t compare themselves to others.Įven before Taylor Swift gave us squad goals, the importance of having and making girlfriends was never an issue for a bad bitch because confident girls do not feel threatened or jealous of other girls. Being happy with what they see in the mirror is a priority because it only adds to their confidence. Bad bitches do not keep up appearances for others, they do it for themselves. Yes, it’s important to have hair on fleek, trust me, but it’s much deeper than being fine AF for attention. If you’re a bad bitch, you know where you get that strength and confidence from, and there are things that you will or will not do to maintain this status quo. bad bitches (mostly learned by watching too many episodes of Vanderpump Rules and reading Amber Rose’s book) is a time when women are reflecting more on what sets them apart from others and where their inner positive sense of self comes from. But this was something that waxed and waned over the years of my life and there were definitely periods of time where my inner bad bitch was suppressed.īut I’m feeling that now more than ever, especially with all the hype about basic vs. This strong willed, uncompromising girl has been me for as long as I can remember, always having some degree of unwillingness to conform to anything unless I wanted to. But I felt like I was different from everyone else because of my ability to be a leader- like a 90’s version of Regina George, minus being rich and blonde and my knowing that butter is a carb. I may have been basic in high school, with my band of loyal followers in the “M’Squad”, because wearing short skirts and heels and being voted best dressed did nothing for me except exasperate my Napoleon complex. Not necessarily in a better way, but in a different way. One thing I’ve always strived for in my life was to set myself apart from other girls. And for many of us who don’t take a derogative word too seriously, because- shockingly yes, we swear, it can become something positive. But these days, something about it changes when you throw the word “bad” before it. So I’m not totally thrilled about referring to a strong, beautiful, self-reliant female as a bitch of any sort. This consists of body, mind, finances, and attitude a woman who gets her way by any means necessary. Bad Bitch (n.): a self-respecting, strong female who has everything together.
